“For a thousand years in thy sight are as yesterday,
which is past. And as a watch in the night.” Ps 90:4
Another year as a catechist and hopefully I have grown
from being a catechist in training to one who now finds her feet planted more
firmly on the Rock; resulting in a greater confidence than I had last year.
I am still unable to put a name to each of the 40 bright,
young faces in my class but each face has
become familiar and dear to me. Each has
a special place in my heart and I must happily confess that this year I can put
far more names to faces than I did the last year.
My interaction with them was greater as I was less
self-conscious and as a result more relaxed just being myself. I like attending the Holy Mass that is
celebrated for the children each Friday.
I like standing near the benches close to the door and watch the
children and parents come in. They stop
at the holy water font and it is heartening to see so many parents making sure
that their children bless themselves with this sacramental as they enter. The Church is the house of God and I, being
the fanciful person that I am, like to fancy that I stand at the gate of heaven,
as I and the other teachers help to find a seat for each child. Our priests do not talk down to the children
during the homily but take great pains to ensure that the sermon is lively,
often inter-active and always thought provoking. There is one particular priest who can be
relied upon to make the children laugh helplessly yet I am certain that he
gives most of them, especially the older kids, much food for reflection.
I reach the class room early and while I stand outside
the classroom door waiting until it is opened, I have time to chat with the children who come early. We all troop in once the door is unlocked. As we wait
for the bell to ring some of the
children will come up to me and share something of interest that they
experienced during the week. I normally
have papers for distribution and there is never a shortage of willing hands to
help me. Once the bell rings all the
children are seated in their places – as they settle down the chattering and
giggling slowly subsides, we then say the opening prayer and the class begins
in earnest.
We have the usual mix of kids some are shy, some bold and
brash, some are quite unable to stop talking, or fidgeting. There are the angelic ones and the ones who
look angelic and are not. Then there are
the naughty ones who somehow manage to be very charming as well, so even when
you have to scold you have to struggle to keep a straight face. I don’t think any class is complete without the
resident class clown and of course we also have a few really clever kids. Then there are those who have terrible
handwriting and even more atrocious spelling, these I think find the softest
spot in my heart because they remind me of my youngest son when he was their
age and I had the same difficulty with him.
I know now that I need not have worried because he has outgrown the bad
handwriting as well as the atrocious spelling and I can smile fondly as I look
at the books of these children because I
know it is a handicap they will soon outgrow.
Some of the kids are pretty surprising – there is a slow
writer who not only writes very neatly but does pretty well in the tests. Then we have a young girl with the most
adorable lisp – all the hard consonants come out with a babyish ‘ith’ and one
does not wish to laugh because she is so unselfconscious about it. All credit I am sure must go to her
parents. A word on a really angelic
looking, soft spoken, well-mannered boy who looks as St. Dominic Savio must
have looked, but without the glasses. Almost
always he will have the right answer to any question. He speaks slowly and
deliberately as if giving the question great thought and is groping for the
right words to express himself. I always
think that he will top the class but it is almost always a girl who does.
I must say a word about one particular young miss who
sits in the front bench. She is small in
stature, has lovely, mid-shoulder length, wavy hair and speaks so softly I have
to bend down and try to catch what she wants to say. She sits beside this boy who is much taller
than she is and poor fellow is petrified of her. It is so amusing. She has often given him a sharp blow to his
shoulder and he has gasped in pain. She
complains about him endlessly and you would think he would rather sit anywhere
else but with her; yet Friday after
Friday he takes his seat beside her. Once
when he was lingering outside (mind you the bell had not yet
rung) little miss lovely came up to
me to complain that he was playing outside instead of coming into the class
room.
The children made their First Confession this
Monday. All 155 boys and girls sat in
one room and the senior catechists helped to prepare them with prayer and in making an
examination of conscience. The
electricity that the nervous tension generated in that room could have lit up a
village. They were excited and aware that
this experience was something quite extraordinary. Young as these children were between 9 and 11
years of age they were a little anxious – worried if they would get it right
and follow the steps properly. This was the first time they were required to reflect on their past sins, look them squarely in the face and name them as such. We tried
to shush them and keep them quiet but it was often quite impossible, although I
must say that when they were asked to close their eyes, with the exception of a
few giggly girls and boys, they complied obediently and some were positively
edifying as they prayed most earnestly.
On Friday the children will receive their First Holy
Communion. We have prayed for them as
well as for their families. We have
helped them to prepare as well as it is possible to be prepared for such
awesome Sacraments – Reconciliation and the Holy Eucharist, yet we have to be
realistic enough to know that we have only helped them take their first baby
steps – they have a lifetime of proper training, learning and guidance from
parents, Church and teachers to help them grow in grace and wisdom. We can only pray in faith that what God has begun He
will bring to completion.
I will miss them but I will continue to see some of them
as they pass their old class. Some will pause
for a moment and say, “Hello ma’am,” some will be too busy talking excitedly to
friends and still others will pass by with no visible sign of recognition; yet,
I like to think that we have influenced them for good in some small measure. As they grow spiritually as well as physically, we pray and trust that the framework that we
have laid will be strong and sturdy. So
although there is sad little tug at my heartstrings to see them go I can look
forward eagerly for the next group of children that God will entrust to us and God willing, with the help of His Holy Spirit,
we can feed them on the finest wheat and sweet honey from the Rock of which our beloved holy
Mother Church has an unending supply.
MYRA D'SOUZA / 18TH APRIL 2012
Dear Myra
ReplyDeletegood personal reflection
god bless you for sharing this with all
happy soul searching too
god bless
franco sdb
Dearest Myra,
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing your beautiful reflection. It was like myself standing in front of my class.
Good writing skills awesome reflection.. Keep it up
God Bless
Susan
(Catechist)
pamyfernandes: As always superb!
ReplyDeleteGod sure did have a purpose in inspiring you to become a Catechist.
Love,
Pam
Hi Myra:
ReplyDeleteWith regard to what you have written- very nice and I could imagine all the children you have described. Is this for your blog? In one place you have said- a certain ‘father’. Suggest you use the word ‘priest’.
As both Alwin and self have said before – you have a flair for writing.
Bye for now-
Love,
Mira
New Zealand
Hi Myra,
ReplyDeleteSuperb article. I too was a Sponsor and God mother for a Buddist friend of mine and her children all became Catholics. They were Baptised and Confirmed. I spent a year of attending weekly meetings with them. Will send you some pics later. Well keep up the good work.
Marina
Canada